Toxic Person In Your Circle

When we hear the word "toxic", it usually symbolized by a skull, we all tend to move away as much as possible of the product concerned whatsoever. But when it comes to our social circle, it becomes much more difficult to identify a toxic person and thus protect ourselves from its negative effect on our psychological state. To help you detect a toxic presence around you, here are 12 telltale signs of this type of personality!
Evolving in a world where borders have become almost virtual and the circle of knowledge increasingly become wider, it is almost impossible not to fall on one or two toxic people. However, dealing with such people is not easy. Having constantly need attention and care, they eventually consume you mentally.
To help you identify that type of personality and take appropriate measures to protect and preserve your stability and well-being,

here are 12 signs that the person in front of you is a toxic person.

12 Signs of a toxic personality:
1 - Negativity
A person who is honest and who can say when things go wrong is realistic. But when it does not stop criticizing, complaining about everything and nothing, of ruthlessly judge people in difficult situations, whining, feeling sorry for herself, etc., it becomes negative and negativity is one of the most revealing of a toxic personality traits.
2 - He/She is always right
When a person is injured or when she does not feel safe, it can sometimes show stubbornness and refuse to admit she's wrong. But when this becomes the norm, you are probably facing a toxic personality. The latter is characterized by her inability to admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness, whatever the arguments and evidence that you provide. Besides, she will not hesitate to cut short the conversation or to get excited against you for defending your position or opinion.
3 - Perpetual crisis
Have a toxic person in your circle is synonymous with perpetual crises. There will always be a problem or a confrontation to be solved. By giving her daily  problems more volume than they deserve, that person often causes a dramatic situations and pour on you all negative emotions and you will suffer the consequences of their bad decisions.
4 - She takes up the majority of your time
A toxic person still has a problem to solve or need comfort. Therefore, she will not hesitate to bite into your private space and to capture a large part of your time, without taking into account your needs or desires.
5 - A total lack of compassion
This type of personality never shown compassion or empathy for others. Instead, they emit very negative judgments about people in difficult situations and are always positioned as the most people affected by bad luck.
6 - The unrelenting criticism
Have a friend who knows how to put you on track and criticize you when you need it is one thing; while having someone who is never satisfied with anything and criticizes each of your actions, is another issue. A person who sees nothing positive in you and makes you always more effort to please him and get back constantly in question is a toxic person that tries to destroy your confidence and wear you emotionally. Save yourself!
7 - A selfish character
One of the characteristics of a toxic person is selfishness. She's never there when you need her, and if she is, she will listen to half or worse, not at all. It will demonstrate a lack of interest and compassion for you and your suffering. All that interests her is that you are listening to her when she needs it!
8 - She is lying to you
A toxic person who always wants to pass by the victim, is not ashamed to ignore incriminating truths for them to change certain facts and even create outlandish stories whose sole purpose is to manipulate you. So if you have different versions of the same situation or the events recounted do not stick, take your time to analyze everything and find an impartial story.
9 - A violent
Whether physical, psychological or verbal violence should never be tolerated. A person who ignores your emotions, which attacks you verbally or dare lay hands on you should be banned completely and permanently from your life.
10 - She is not ashamed to speak harm of others
A person who gossip as her favorite sport is someone who is not trustworthy. Not only this shows that it lacks confidence but she needs to belittle others to feel better, moreover, she will not stop speaking harm of you, when you have your back turned.
11 - It performs the role of the victim
Everything that happens is never her fault. Problems arise either because the others are wicked and dishonest, or because the spell persists against her. The point is that she is still innocent in your eyes and a victim of injustice. Worse, even if you try to help her out of this vicious circle, she will consider your attempts a backhand. A toxic person likes to play the role of victim and always still enjoy the attention and compassion of others.
12 - Your instinct foretells you
One of the simplest and most effective ways to tell if someone is toxic or not is to follow your instinct. If you feel that a person is not good for you and will chokes you or will only emotionally exhausting you, follow your intuition and take the appropriate decision that will allow you to protect yourself and protect your living space.
A toxic person can not have all these features at a time, as it can show others, such as addiction, for example. It is therefore important for your stability and psychological development to quickly identify such persons and to set limits that will protect you from the negative waves.

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