Recognize Toxic People In Your Life

The presence of some toxic people around you makes only poison your life, causing you unnecessary problems, trying to belittle you and forcing you to live their daily drama. Nobody lives in a bubble and it is inevitable to meet toxic people. For this, it is very important to know the signs that will help you identify toxic people around you and minimize their impact on your life.
Here are 16 signs that will help you quickly recognize such people.
1. They are negative
Being negative is a telltale sign that a person is toxic for you. This type of person is categorical in his judgments, sarcastic, complained all the time .... This negativity can wear you out; this is an alarm signal which proves that you are with a toxic person.
2. They are always stressed
Our current lifestyle is very stressful. We all live with stress. But if you are around someone who always magnifies or constantly worsen the situations, take your distances. This person is toxic for you.
3. They try to control you
If someone ever told you what to do, say or how to act, pay attention; these behaviors can be manipulative. If you feel like a puppet, it's time to seriously reconsider your relationship with that person.
4. They criticize you
There are people who criticize you constantly all the time and have an advice or an opinion about you and your life. Once you feel that they are still trying to correct you, it is time to take matters in hand and explain to them that the problem lies with them and not you.
5. They have all the time need to be right
These people around you who need to be right all the time! The opinions of others do not count and they always claim to be right, even if this is not the case. The conversation for them is supposed to be a challenge that must be earned, not a dialogue and exchange of ideas.
6. They are constantly dramatic
Toxic people still have a crisis or conflict to resolve and they always involve others in their dramas. These people are in perpetual confrontation and did not assume the consequences of their actions or decisions. So they make others accountable.
7. They lose their patience
Being close to someone who gets angry quickly can be unbearable and intolerable in the long run. People who do not manage their anger and prevail for banalities have nothing to do in your life.
8. They make you lose a lot of time
As soon as they appear, toxic people take too much time without considering your life. In relationships, you have to give but also take back. If you feel you constantly give without anything in return, perhaps it is time to reevaluate the relationship.
9. They lack compassion
In any relationship, one of the key elements is the ability to show empathy and compassion toward others. Toxic people can not.
10. They talk more than they listen
When someone speaks more than listening to you, or does not really listening at all, know that this is a toxic person.
11. They are lying to you
These people are liars. While it is difficult to know quickly if someone is lying or not. But over time, changes in their words that do not match the chip will put you in the ear.
12. They are hurtful
When someone says deliberately hurtful words to you, or acts maliciously, or does not pay attention to your feelings, we must consider it as a toxic person! If you are regularly wounded by a person, eliminate it from your life.
13. They are self-centered
If you are in front of a person who merely talk about oneself without paying any attention to you or your desires, it would be better to avoid it. It is a toxic person. There is no person existing except them . Thus in the long run this kind of behavior is unbearable.
14. They act like a victim
If you have around you people who often blame others for their problems, or even if they criticize others for their own mistakes, . Beware, lack of responsibility is a sign of toxicity. Attention toxic people can be quite convincing.
15. They have unresolved dependency issues
Having a relationship with someone struggling with addiction can be one of the most difficult and painful experiences that you can live. These people can earn the highest points mentioned above because of their addiction.
16. You do not feel well!
If you do not feel good with someone, trust your instinct. Your intuition is a valuable tool and is usually right. Even if you can not determine what is wrong about, but you should avoid or limit contact with this person.

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