5 Stages to find true love
In love, there are no precise rules. Each relationship is unique and each couple lives its own as it sees fit. However, we can not deny the existence of several points in common. Indeed, looking closer, we can see that all - or almost all - relationships go through 5 stages of love and that most of those who fail, do so because the partners do not arrive Not to exceed the 3rd. Let us therefore discover what these stages are, as well as the particularity of the 3rd.
A successful and stable relationship is based on several pillars, including mutual love and respect. In order for it to be sustainable, both partners must be prepared to make efforts and not give up, at the first obstacle encountered. Moreover, we must know that lasting love passes through several stages, one particularly difficult, and which sometimes determines the very fate of the relationship.
Let us discover the different stages of the construction of a perennial love, and the reason why one must do everything to go beyond the 3rd!
The 5 main stages of love:
Stages 1: Fall in Love
You have seen each other, you have spoken to each other and you have felt that something special attracts you to each other. You lose the words, you can no longer tame the beating of your heart in his presence ... Congratulations! You are in love ! You are dazzled by your emotions, you believe in every word and speech proliferated by your partner and you see only the qualities of this one. You consider it perfect and you dream of life full of happiness and romance that you will share.
Stages 2: Get together
Now that things are official between you, you fully live your "honeymoon". Your love is at its height and your libido is at the top! You see each other often and each one of you does his best to make the other happy and fill him with small attentions. Besides, you feel so close to each other, that none of you sees his life without the other with him. You decide to take the plunge and you move together!
Stages 3: Disillusionment
Now that you are under the same roof and the relationship deepens, each of you will reveal his true personality and character traits that he did not particularly want to let the other see. Moreover, by being constantly together, your emotions stabilize and the feeling of anticipation and butterflies in the belly that assailed you to the idea to see it, you miss. You begin to annoy you and you feel that the love that tied you is no more. Conclusion: it may not be worth while to continue in a cold relationship that does not satisfy you anymore!
Stages 4: Creating a Real, Deep and Sustainable Love
If you stop at the previous stage, you will never be able to build the solid and lasting relationship you've always dreamed of. However, if you decide to make the effort to fix things and revive the spark of love that was burning in you at the time of your meeting with your partner, you will be surprised at the transformation that is going on, Operate within your couple. Indeed, by renouncing unrealistic expectations and accepting the (acceptable) defects of your partner, you will find your serenity and the happiness that you felt while being at his side.
Stages 5: Being two to change the world
You have finally reached the final stage, but not at the end of your romantic relationship. You have succeeded in creating strong and strong ties that tie you closely to each other. You have also been able to establish a relationship of deep, sincere and enduring love that will be able to overcome the small inconveniences and worries of everyday life. You do not feel lonely when faced with the hardships of life because you have a partner you can rely on and who will be there to help and support you whenever you need it.
You are two united forces that can stand up to anything that might separate or weaken them.