You're not the jealous guy to die of, but still, your man's behavior is quite unusual lately. The suspicions are settled and your little inner voice puts you in the wake "What if he had a connection? ". Unless you conduct your little investigation or harvest a cluster of clues, it's hard to be clear about it. Yet some revealing signs do not deceive. Here are 7.
Too frigid or hot boiling, what is it hiding?
You no longer recognize your man. In bed, it is either distant or hot boiling. He tries you to test the sodomy whereas, until then, it opposed it firmly, or, on the contrary, for months, it does not take you even a glance nor tries a caress. In case of incartade, the intimate relations lose of their vitality and the infidel is less focused on the intercourse, hence the search for a link to palliate this lack. In some cases, infidelity or at least jealousy rekindles desire within the couple. Once the confession is digested, some couples manage to return the situation to their advantage, which allows them to caulk their attachment.
He is not interested in you
Your man is less and less interested in your life as a couple. He does not go into projects for the future, everything you undertake is completely equal to him. He comes back later and goes to work earlier, discovered new hobbies with friends you do not know? He excludes you from his outings among friends, becomes distant and you have the impression that he has mind elsewhere. This could well be a real sign of infidelity.
It makes you suffer its mood swings
Depending on the position of the idyll in relation to the legitimate relationship, the mood of the infidel can change completely with respect to the cocufied partner. Sometimes affectionate and cuddly, sometimes aggressive and disparaging of everything and its opposite. When a man deceives, he is necessarily torn by remorse, from where gifts to excess and the desire to move away, hence this attitude of rejection where he tends to belittle you and constantly devalue you, No doubt to convince himself that his mistress is more up to you than you.
It locks all access to its heart
He who always left to drag his Ipad or his phone, it seems to have doubly codified them and never highlights them. It's on social networks only when you're not around? There is no need to consider using your devices. Infidel or just overnight to preserve a little too his secret garden? One wonders if these gadgets would not be bursting with hot photos and sparkling messages from another woman. It's a bad sign!
A slip you say?
"Come on, my Fanny." Such an invitation would have enchanted you, only you are not called Fanny. Of course, a slip of the tongue, it's not that bad and of course you can choose to swallow that Fanny is the boss's assistant who taps her on the system, that it's greedy And she has warts on her nose. But frankly, admit that it's still crazy that his unconscious mind makes him remember the boss's assistant while you are chocking his neck, right?
You get out of the aberrant remarks
The crisis is well established, your relationship is slowly destroyed in a silent death, the disputes are more repetitive for a yes or a no. This is definitely no longer the man you loved a few years ago. Sometimes you get ridiculous reproaches and you suspect that a third person has heard of your worries and has given himself the freedom to add his grain of salt.
You are no longer a priority in his eyes
He keeps you away from his life, you feel like being 10,000 kilometers apart, he is relieved to leave you to join his friends. Understand that it leaves you physically and closes more and more emotionally. Pull the alarm bell!
If your man presents at least 3 of these signs, you are invited to pronounce the sentence couperet "we must discuss, I know that you deceive me", basically, preach the need to know the truth. According to his reaction, you can flush out the infidel or the persecuted he is, unless he knows how to hide his game.