At a first gallant date, women as well as men try to appear in their best light and do their best to leave a good impression in the other. Gorgeous appearance, gallantry, compliments ... everything goes on. But sometimes, despite all these efforts, things do not go as planned and the little attraction and hope to build a love relationship suddenly flies away. To better bring you closer to such situations, here are the testimonies of 9 women who reveal to us the worst things made by men during the first appointment.
9 worst scenarios of a first rendezvous experienced by women:
An evening of video games
Agnes, 22 years old, tells that after a dinner where everything went well, Monsieur invited him to accompany him to his house ... to watch him play Fifa. He sincerely believed that he was the god of football on screen. To put an end to her boredom, Agnes sent a message to her friend to tell him to call her and ask her to return in an emergency. According to the young woman, the talent of men in video games only reminds them of their brothers at home.
Openly disrespectful towards women
Carol, 27, tells that she was in a gallant rendezvous when a Rihanna song goes into the background. At that moment, her companion told her that the fact that the singer was beaten by Chris Brown (his boyfriend) is the best thing that happened to him during his career. What he forgot is that the young woman was working in a shelter for victims of domestic violence.
Obliging her drinking
Marie, 23, had fallen on the rare pearl. In the wrong way, obviously. From the beginning of their appointment, his companion kept asking him to come in and get drunk. A little precision, but important anyway, he clearly told him that he did not want to get drunk. He wanted to make her lose her head by tasting "vodka candy" or smoking cannabis.
Invite her ex-girlfriend
Julia, 23, had been invited by a boy on Twitter, to spend a pleasant time together and play Scrabble, without it being a genuine rendezvous. He had also invited his ex-girlfriend, which was a way for him to show him that he had forgotten him and that he had gone ahead. Julia says she felt used, which she did not like at all.
For 23-year-old Fanny, her movie release with her Valentine, quickly turned into an outing between friends, after her Valentine told her that her friends wanted to join them. Unable to bring back her own who were unavailable, she goes alone to her appointment. Result: she finds herself sitting with her companion, between the friends of the latter. It was for her, the worst movie night ever. Do not ever do it again.
Ask superficial questions
Once, Alexia, 22 years old, had gone out in a gallant date with the blind. To make conversation, the boyfriend, finds nothing better to say than to ask her: "It is your natural hair color? ". An embarrassing and indiscreet question to which she did not know how to respond.
Forgetting good manners
According to Laurence, 23, the worst thing a man did for her first appointment was to blow her nose at the table. This disgusting gesture was enough to cut off his appetite.
Choose, alone, the movie to watch
After dinner, Laura (24) was invited by her companion to watch a movie together. Once settled in his home, the latter makes the choice of the film without asking his opinion and opts for "Machine Gun Preacher", an action film full of scenes of war and turmoil. Not really what it takes for a first date gallant.
Kill the conversation
Lea, 27, is a regular on the internet and often enjoyed it even if she was not physically attracted by the person in front. But this time she fell on someone who avoided any visual contact with her and was only making sarcastic remarks about the dress and subjects of conversation of the people around them. After 10 minutes, she had enough of her judgments and her sharp character.