To develop intimate moments for two, to show one's feelings, to be empathetic, to play with desire are so many attitudes to adopt to maintain the flame within a couple. For love to rhyme with always, it is necessary to be two to create the alchemy of desire. What is the secret of a harmonious couple life?
They married and lived happily, until the end of time .... Ah, if only the life of a couple was a tranquil eternal river. At the beginning of the relationship, everything is pink and cottony, you post a gaga smile and think it's gone for life. Then, days pass, months and years. The enchantment of the first times evaporates. You look more like an old embittered couple, bickering constantly for a yes for a no. Boredom is on the verge of breaking your marital happiness. To avoid falling into this trap, you are given, in the absence of magic potion, some tips to revive the flame.
Cleanse the terrain of conflict and adopt a rewarding attitude
Needless to remind you that there is nothing more toxic in a couple than these time bombs, such as rancor, useless quarrels and reproaches, especially those which are repressed. In case of disagreement, do not hesitate to empty his bag and put his finger where it hurts. Telling oneself one's four truths and addressing critics without falling into vulgarity turns out to be liberating. The alchemy of desire is not only nourished by intercourse relationship, it is not resolved by a rapprochement in bed, but quite dressed.
To renew, it is necessary to begin by replacing to argue by discussing, without denigrating or addressing a flood of insults or degrading remarks.
Harmony in a couple involves the ability to manage conflicts with respect. One forgets to tell the one who shares our life all the good that one thinks of him or her and one thinks wrongly that its presence is an obligation not a gift of oneself. It is sometimes enough to tell the other how much we appreciate his presence and his support to restore him confidence and faith in this union which tended to crumble. More than a proof of love, this is a real proof of desire ... a desire not to see his couple shatter. And then let's admit that nothing is more titillating and moving than the feeling of being valued and appreciated for what one is with regard to the loved one. Nothing better predisposes to revive the flame.
Advance in tandem
In love, nothing is immutable and There is no miracle recipe, or a turnkey solution to stir up and awaken the flame of desire. But say you are not enemies or opponents, imagine yourself as a tandem playing tennis on the same side of the net. If you want to solve your problems and live harmoniously together. Facilitate communication, the goal is not to put the blame on the other's back but to find a way out.
Action, turn!
Once the situation is unblocked, act with creativity. Change for example decor. Studies show, couples willingly unite more when they change frame. A hotel room, an unusual place, scented candles, a subdued atmosphere, any stimulation is welcome to create a new atmosphere.
It is known the desire is dull because of lack of creativity. So multiply the fiercings and fiery embraces of your beginnings, the desire revives of these small contacts lost in the whirlwind of the daily grind. What if you shake the habits of your intimate life too repetitive and monotonous? What exhilarated you before does not make you any more? Talk about your wildest fantasies and give new impetus to your desire.
Believe it or not, desire sometimes comes down to things much simpler than naughty role plays to awaken a libido at half-mast. On the contrary, a simple little thing can titillate the envy of darling. A careful listening in case of a problem, an unexpected text message, a special attention, a kiss pressed and the machine is ready to restart ... Especially do not put pressure and leave you time to want a Physical approximation