One of the hardest lessons to learn is that in life nobody is really as sincere as it looks and you are not especially a priority for others.
Have you ever noticed that you tend to give over and over but that you never receive anything in return despite your good deeds?
We all need a loving relationship where the other will make us his priority as often as we make him. If this is not the case, it would probably be time to consider a breakup.
Here are 10 signs that prove you are in the background and your partner does not consider you to be his priority:
He always invites other friends to important events
Whether your partner wants to spend time with friends is one thing, but always invites others to an event is another. In a couple, it is important to spend time alone with his partner.
He never retains what you say when you talk about what is going on in your life
Of course, when our head is elsewhere we can be inattentive and not hold back some things. But if you too often find yourself having to remind your partner of the events of your life, then there may be an eel under rock.
Almost all the projects you try to carry out in his company fall into the water at the last moment
Imagine disappointment when you are ready to go out and your partner cancels at the last minute ... if this happens once or twice, it is certainly not alarming but if it becomes recurring, beware of that person.
He does not accept any criticism from you
Being in a couple also includes accepting the other with his qualities but also his defects. However, if he never accepts any of your remarks, your relationship will have trouble evolving.
He stops responding to your messages and answers you when it suits him
Your partner may be busy and can not respond to your messages. But if you notice that when he is with you, he always has his phone in his hand while he never answers you, you should ask yourself questions ...
You think that if the relationship continues it is only through YOUR efforts
In order for a relationship to last, both parties must put theirs. It is impossible for one of the two partners to maintain the relationship alone because it probably does not lead to anything ...
You tend to find excuses for everything he does
It is normal to defend one's partner in all circumstances, as long as it is legitimate. But excusing all his actions, especially when he hurts you, will not advance your relationship!
He denigrates everything you consider important
In a couple, sharing interests is important but you also have to have your own hobbies. Your partner is not obligated to love them but has no right to denigrate them.
You say no to the outings that offer your friends because you always expect a response from him
If your partner is harming you to the point of no longer going out with your friends and making you wait in uncertainty, then he does not want your happiness because he puts his personal interests before you.
You feel more unhappy in this relationship
Even if there are ups and downs, a romantic relationship must make you happy. If you find yourself shedding more tears than laughing, then you should seriously consider putting an end to this situation.