If some people are lucky to have a face very soft and naturally smiling, others have a sulky pout constantly. Although this facial expression gives a mysterious and obvious appearance an imposing character, it has many disadvantages. Women who always seem to be furious seem constantly annoyed or angry, whereas that is not the case!
The face is seen as a reflection of the emotions we can feel. Facial expressions, in particular, represent a major non-verbal communication tool. A powerful means of expression, which is not always read or deciphered correctly.
Indeed, some people are distinguished by very cold expressions, which give a sulky air. Not that they make the effort to have an upset look, but their face naturally adopts this expression.
Often misunderstood, these people face many troublesome situations on a daily basis. Here are the 6 most common:
They take you for someone impolite
When your facial expressions announce disdain or contempt while you are arguing with someone, especially if it is an unknown, it is often interpreted as a lack of respect or rudeness.
The person must know you very well so that he understands that the expressions of your face do not always express what you feel. The fact of not smiling at your interlocutor or not showing your enthusiasm by speaking to him is not a sign of rudeness. You're just like that!
You are always asked to smile
In our unconscious, the smile symbolizes joy and happiness. Thus, as soon as one sees a person furious, one concludes systematically that it is sad, depressed or that it does not go well. But that does not apply to everyone. Apart from the fact that you can not smile all day long, some people just have colder facial expressions.
If you are part of it, you should be familiar with these remarks such as "mouse a little," "enjoy life," or "why do you make a funeral head? ". As understanding as you are, hearing these remarks becomes annoying in the long run!
And if at first you were trying to defend yourself and explain your situation, with time you throw in the towel!
People Feel Targeted
Whether it is at work, at home, with your friends or partner, the lack of reaction on your part following a discussion or behavior is often misunderstood. Though you do not really have bad intentions or thoughts, your facial expressions make you believe that this is the case.
It may be that they take it wrong and think that you want them, whereas this is generally not the case!
We keep asking you questions
Like excessive remarks, chain questions are not much appreciated. You're sure you're tired of being asked every time what's wrong or what you have. Even if you try to explain to them that everything is going perfectly well, they do not always believe you and insist on knowing the reason for this sulky pout. And as you always respond in the same way, some people may believe that you just do not want to share with them what is bothering you.
You put too much pressure
Faced with these different situations that arouse questions and sometimes discomfort among your entourage, you try to make an effort to appear less annoyed.
Only, your efforts do not always give the desired effect! Your loved ones will not notice that you do not behave naturally, and begin to ask even more questions!
You can not sulk like everyone else
When you have all the time seeming to sulk, it's hard to know when you're really heading. Your loved ones will not dare ask what is wrong for fear of having the same answer. And if you sulk somebody in particular, it will be difficult enough to make him understand through your facial expressions!