In the age of mass narcissism on social networks, we discover personality traits and increasingly aggressive behaviors. Shared between goodness and cruelty, society is anchored in an individualism, which does not always suit human nature.
This difficulty in finding the balance between good and bad offers new paths of study to psychologists. However, as their results are more visible through the media, we sometimes lose our way of defining what type of person is toxic or not. That's why we help you find out if you're dealing with a toxic individual with these 12 alarming signs!
The 12 signs that prove it's a toxic person
He denies the reality
The universal truth does not apply to a toxic person because it constantly denies reality. The latter is too hard to live for her, she prefers to ignore and model an illusory world where you are a pawn on a game of failure.
He distorts things
One of the secrets of this person's way of acting is to distort the words, the events and their context. It follows a theory of its own and is supported by lies.
He hides information
When she feels that something may compromise her identity, she will make sure to retain any information that relates to it. Indeed, this type of person always hides useful information about him.
He is cheating
The toxic person deceives the other according to all possible definitions for deception and in all areas. When she tries to make you suck something, you end up believing her because she uses the right words to convince you and make you feel that what you think is wrong.
He is constantly lying
In order to build itself, the poisonous person lies as she breathes. On the one hand, she creates an image of herself that suits her better to ignore her faults and her psychological troubles and on the other hand, she takes pleasure in deceiving others.
He does not feel guilt
In this kind of personality, compassion as well as guilt are not criteria that define it. On the contrary, she feels no remorse and no regret at harming others because for her, it is normal behavior.
He avoids any responsibility
In order not to harm his precious image, the toxic person avoids any responsibility. As soon as she feels that a problem is going to fall on her, she accuses and blames a person she has judged to be weak.
He manipulates
Among the champions of the manipulation in the country of the scam, we find the toxic individual. Indeed, a toxic person is desperate to achieve his ends and she uses manipulation because it is his favorite way.
He pretends to be helpful
When this person comes to your rescue, it is not because she wants to help you but because it is useful for something. Indeed, a toxic person always has a hidden purpose in each of his actions.
He steals your time
Do you spend most of your time solving problems or comforting her? Suspicion because a person who insinuates himself into your daily life, without the least scruple and does not take into account your desires or your expectations, is toxic.
He leads a double life
She will never admit that she leads a double life because it is all about lies and she will have to face reality. But a toxic person flees reality.
He keeps control constantly
Given all the lies that a toxic person tells, she must keep control constantly and this is visible. If you are dealing with a toxic person, she will be particularly possessive and will have trouble relaxing.