This is well known to all, a little can sometimes spoil the harmony in your relationship. Then follows torments, sufferings and other feelings of pain and bitterness. The worst part is that you do not understand why you have quarreled or confused with your darling! Here's for you ladies, the list of things you should never do to your man to avoid annoying him!
Sometimes you wonder why you are not on the same wavelength with your partner, it's probably because you still have not found out what things were that you did and that could sometimes annoy him.
Little things that can make your relationship worse, so it's important to spot and understand as quickly as possible! Discover today the list of things not to do to your darling if you really care about him:
Try to solve all your problems:
This is one thing that many women tend to want to do for their darlings as soon as they have the least concern. We know for a fact that you want to do well by lending some money to it until these financial problems are resolved. But what you do tends to do no favor to any of you. Worse: it annoys him deeply! A man does not like to have the impression of being in a position of weakness: he wants to be the one who solves all the problems (whether financial or otherwise), which brings solutions, which reassures ... then inevitably when the roles are reversed, it can seriously annoy him. Let him take the place of the superhero in the couple! It will be better for both of you.
Offer him too expensive gifts:
If there is one thing that men abhor above all else, it is expensive gifts, especially if it can not afford to return the favor! Once again, you thought you were doing it by offering him an expensive watch or simply by buying him his favorite game console ... which still cost you an arm. Men are not very fond of this kind of attention. If you really want to make him happy, just show up for him and why not, for a little more personalized gifts.
Use him as a shoulder to cry on:
If some men like to reassure their partners when they do not have the morale or feel very well, others do not support that their partner comes to cry on their shoulder. It can literally annoy them. According to some men, women do not have to "feel sorry for themselves" in this way. She must be strong, brave and above all, be able to control her emotions!
Drop your personal life and work
If there is anything else that men can not stand, it is because the woman can give up everything for them! This can once again start from a good intention ... but it is actually anything but rewarding for you ladies! Finding love does not mean "giving up friends, personal life" or "giving up your career". Men like independent women who know how to balance things between their love life and the rest. Think about it!
Change appearance ... to please him:
What a funny idea ... And yet, many women admit wanting to change their look to please their man a little more. If you think it can really make him happy, you're wrong! If it's about putting the dress he prefers the most in your wardrobe to go out to dinner somewhere, why not, in which case, do not feel obliged to change radically appearance by changing hair color for example, because he prefers you as you are, naturally. And if you really want to do it, do it for yourself: your man will respect this kind of decision much more.
"I told you so, no? »:
If there is one sentence that your man can not bear to hear from you, that's it! If you intend to make him all kinds of reproaches or show him that you are always right on everything, know that this will only further aggravate your relationship. To avoid then!