The adage says that love makes you blind because our abilities of judgment, discernment and critical thinking are blurred by love feelings. Thus, we let ourselves be carried into a love relationship and this other, previously a mere stranger, becomes the apple of our eyes.
But, it happens that the brain reminds the order to the heart, especially in the face of behaviors and actions of our partner that are intolerable. So, to avoid getting hurt and realize what's good or not before it's too late, here are 10 things you should never bear in a relationship!
1. Everything goes in one direction
You are especially attentive with your partner, whether it is for hugs or gifts, or even when it comes to giving him all your time. However, you get almost nothing in return and this is a sign that you deserve a lot better, that is to say a person who shares with you the need to make the other happy, in any way possible.
2. He is not interested in you
Your childhood ? He never asked you a question about it. Your passions ? He does not really care. Even worse, when something good or bad happens in your life, he does not care what you feel. You may think he's shy or he wants to take his time ... Well, no! He's just not interested in you so do not waste your time.
3. He wants to change you
With its flaws and qualities, each person is unique. So, while efforts and compromises must be made for a relationship to be sustainable, we must not change at all! In addition, if you are alone in making an effort or are still asking yourself to change this or that, think carefully about what you want in a relationship.
4. He hides you
That a relationship takes time, especially for the official presentation to relatives and friends, this may be normal. However, after a certain period of time, you must ask yourself questions, because when we sincerely love someone, we must be proud to present it to our loved ones.
5. He flirts with other girls
Either he is completely stupid or he plays with your emotions. Anyway, if you are not in a polygamous or open relationship, you should not accept that your partner is flirting with other girls because it is a real lack of respect.
6. He does not keep his promises
In addition to not keeping his promises, he lies to you and is sometimes verbally and physically abusive? Run away ! These are things you should never tolerate, especially since they may be a sign of a psychological disorder.
7. He is greedy
A stingy person in general and who is not generous with his partner in love is someone quite selfish. Indeed, a couple relationship illustrates a life of two and therefore spending two, whether large purchases or gifts.
8. He changes mood often
One day it is true love and the next is total ignorance. Is it a passionate relationship or the sign of a very unstable character? Maybe both ... In any case, if you want to be happy and keep your head up, you have to make a quick decision about the future of your relationship.
9. He cares about you only at night
Even though he may have a busy schedule, if he does not care about you on his days off, or does it only at night, you need to ask yourself serious questions about the merits of your relationship.
10. He makes you cry more than laugh
This is surely the best reason to break up and right away.