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11 Signs That Your Partner Is Cheating On You With Someone Else

11 Signs That Your Partner Is Cheating On You With Someone Else

Partner Is Cheating On You With Someone Else

We all know that falling in love changes many things in the life of each of us. Except that later, during the relationship, it happens that some people change again quite suddenly and mysteriously. If your partner's behaviors match those that we are going to expose you today, then there is a good chance that he shares his intimacy with someone else.

1.He avoids your friends and family

If your partner was very active in your social or family life but no longer seems to be, this could be a sign that he is trying to avoid the fallout of infidelity. He may feel extremely guilty of having a relationship with someone else, so your family and friends remind him.

2. He makes you feel ignored

One of the obvious signs that your partner is cheating on you, is that feeling that you have when you know that you are no longer appreciated in the relationship. Although your partner may think that it is enough to conceal evidence, he may not notice that he treats you differently and that you feel underestimated.

3.He takes on new habits

These habits can for example be the fact of suddenly becoming protective vis-à-vis his phone, or no longer answer your calls. Taking this kind of strange habits and being defensive during a confrontation is a tell-tale sign of infidelity.

4. He becomes difficult to get clear answers

If your partner has gone from a certain openness and honesty in the way he communicates to a fickle and suspicious attitude, it's probably a sign that he has something to hide from you. Having trouble getting clear answers, even on small things like your schedule, should give you reason to worry.

5. He tries new things in bed

This is of course not systematically a sign of infidelity. It happens in many couples to experiment with new things. But if you notice that he kisses you or touches you in an unexpectedly different way, it is because he probably learned that from someone else.

6. He pays more attention to his appearance

This sign does not necessarily mean that your spouse is cheating on you, especially if he has already spoken to you about it. However, if your partner usually does not care so much about his appearance but the latter becomes an obsession for him, it's certainly trying to impress someone else.

7. He is elsewhere during physical intimacy 

Maybe your cheater partner has physical intimacy with you, but it's not the same type of relationship anymore. If they have just become enjoyable while they have always been exciting, it is possible that your partner is trying to calm you down while having a more exciting physical intimacy with someone else.

8. His libido drops drastically

Desire urges often fluctuate due to stress, diet, lack of exercise and other factors. This is certainly not a sign in itself, but if you used to have regular intimacy activity and that it has dropped for no apparent reason. This is probably because your partner is meeting his needs elsewhere.

9. He returns later than usual

If your partner is usually at home at a certain time, but suddenly he stays late at work. This could be an excuse for him to see someone else behind you. Such an assumption may, in particular, prove to be correct if the change takes place definitively and without any explanation.

10. His phone suddenly becomes a very precious object

If your partner, in the past, was not someone who cared too much about his phone and, suddenly, overprotects him or puts him on silent mode, maybe this device is become more suspicious than before.

11. He is showering right after going home

Unless your partner does a job like construction or another job where it's normal to get dirty, the fact that he suddenly gets in the habit of showering right after coming home could be used to hide evidence of physical contact with a person such as perfume or traces of lipstick.

It is important to note that the signs discussed above are sudden and extreme changes in behavior. The context is therefore an element to be absolutely taken into account. But if you think your partner is cheating on you, the best way to get an answer is to confront your suspicion and discuss it.