Divorce and breakups are becoming more common nowadays and all excuses are good to achieve this. Many reasons are mentioned, some are a euphemism fun, others may be more serious and more serious. Nevertheless, they contribute to the end of an affair that was supposed to be based on eternal love.
According to the words of a lawyer specializing in divorce, here are the 9 warning signs of a possible final separation of a couple.
1. Your partner has a relationship even remotely or virtually with an old relationship.
This state of affairs may not present a danger, but it becomes so, as soon as this communication is substituted for that which is supposed to be with the current partner; at this point the problem becomes more serious and needs to be really taken into consideration.
2. Your spouse is gaining weight and letting himself go too much.
Often, in a marriage, both men and women tend to be carried away by the tumultuous waves of daily life and a lack of appearance can manifest itself, whether in fashion or in maintaining an attractive physical form; this can keep the other partner away and lessen the desire for him.
3. Your partner wears sexy underwear all of a sudden.
If your partner swaps his old underwear for even sexier new ones without wanting to seduce you, this is one of the most revealing signs of a new extramarital relationship that you have to pay attention to.
4. Your partner does not participate in housework.
Marriage is a sharing on all levels and all tasks, whether household, budgetary or otherwise, must be performed fairly between the two partners.
5. Your partner keeps a secret and a mystery with his phone.
When your partner becomes secretive with their phone and always tries to hide the messages or calls they receive, this can be the beginning of a hidden story and can create many conflicts within a couple.
6. Your partner often reminds you of all the expenses you make
The control of the family budget is normally done at two but when it becomes abusive by one of the partners, it denotes a lack of respect and freedom towards the other.
7. Your partner does not want to have intimacy with you anymore.
Intercourse in a relationship brings balance and can be one of the ways to solve many conflicts within the couple especially when it is enhanced by good emotional communication. If your partner does not express the desire to get closer to you physically, a discussion is needed so that this removal is not harmful to the harmony of your relationship.
8. Your partner spends more time outdoors than with you.
Having a personal activity is good but spending more time on it than your partner is a mistake. Life together, based on communication and attention, is a priority for a couple's success.
9. Your partner goes around the bars after work.
Wanting a break after work and meeting a few friends in a bar to empty can do good, but go around the bars of singles and look for their company may denote some discomfort in your partner, the risk of disclosing his life intimate to strangers.
Some couple problems can be elucidated with a little backtracking and a retrospective of all that is wrong in order to find common solutions. Love can be maintained with good communication, mutual respect, good listening and above all surprise the other.