There are the signs that you are dealing with a dangerous narcissist (and how to cope with his behavior)
It is well known that a narcissistic person has real interest only for herself. Endowed with a reduced sense of empathy, it makes any opening to the thoughts, feelings or sufferings of the other almost impossible. But, contrary to what they can show, narcissists have negative thoughts about themselves.
Their inferiority complex leads them to fear failure or not to master situations, which pushes them to want constantly to consolidate in a sense of power and superiority.
Moreover, being narcissistic is recognized as a real personality disorder, especially when the person seeks to crush others. It is called "narcissistic pervert". Cruel lack of empathy, manipulation, grip, and a constant sense of superiority are all revealing signs of a narcissistic tendency that can be problematic for the entourage of such people, even if it is quite possible to face to this type of behavior. Thus, it is appropriate, first, to detect the presence of a narcissistic pervert in his entourage and then to face it.
Recognize the hold of a narcissistic pervert
If you answer in the affirmative to the 8 questions / signs that follow, it is because you are really in the grip of a narcissistic being.
- He isolates you from your friends to better control you?
- He constantly belittles you to show off?
- He hurts your self-esteem?
- He only compliments you when you finally escape?
- He claims being recognized superior to you and others by overestimating his accomplishments?
- He constantly expects special attention and admiration from others?
- He is constantly inhabited by thoughts and fantasies related to success?
- He does not have the ability to take into account the feelings of others?
A person attending a well-known narcissist or who has narcissistic tendencies will most likely feel unsupported and permanently diminished.
But it is also possible to get out of the clutches of someone narcissistic by following these tips:
Refocus on oneself
A narcissistic pervert suffers from an inferiority complex and, in order to succeed in filling it, will make sure to choose partners with these same tendencies to establish their power over them and manipulate them as they please. Thus, it is essential to refocus on oneself because people with good self-confidence, even making the mistake of entering into a relationship with a narcissist, quickly become aware of their emotional abuse and quickly put an end to it.
Stop asking your own values
When a person does not trust her, she becomes the perfect target of someone narcissistic who, giving an attractive image initially, will manage to impose a certain impression of strength and confidence. The goal is to charm and to make idealize the other. If the person in question was not blinded by the attention that could be given to him and did not question his own worth, she would realize that the narcissist who seemed to want to take her under his wing, was only manipulate him.
Look for basic clues
Your lack of self-confidence may very well be one of the reasons you attracted a narcissist. The important thing is to reverse the situation by thinking that you are a strong and genuine person and that you will probably be more successful than you think. Narcissists are looking for accomplished people but on whom they can still build their superiority to better eclipse them.
Identify why you are attracting narcissistic perverts
Unconsciously, the human being would attract people to him to learn some lesson or simply in the context of a projection ... It is questionable if your own behavior would not raise, a little bit of narcissism? Or, it would be wise to ask yourself, "What aspects of my personality and behavior are more likely to attract narcissists to me"? "What lesson should I learn and what changes should I make in me"? These are questions that deserve careful thought in order to understand the meaning and not to reproduce the same pattern.
Do not be a victim
Do not place yourself in a victim position, be your own boss! Believe in your principles, in you and in your achievements while cultivating your empathy and your determination, perfect antidote against the narcissistic pervert.
