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Why It's Better To Stay Single Than To Stay In A "Shit" Relationship

Why It's Better To Stay Single Than To Stay In A "Shit" Relationship

Because they fear loneliness, women sometimes tend to cling to men who do not really do them good. They feed on hopes that are in fact illusions, and although some warning signals are there to warn them that they are only in a semi-relationship doomed to fail, they pay no attention. Rather than investing our time, our person, and our emotions in a lost cause, let's dedicate ourselves to things that will enrich us and make us happy.

What is a semi-relationship (or a "shit" relationship)?
Being in a semi-relationship means being in a relationship with someone, without really being one. We do not know where we are, where we are going, we are in uncertainty and in the dark.

Here are 15 signs that you are in a semi-relationship:
  • You send him a long message, only to find out after a few hours that he has not answered yet, while he has read it.
  • You spend hours preparing yourself and getting dressed, so that at the last minute, he cancels everything.
  • You refuse to see your friends because you wait for him to invite you, often at the last minute or intoxicated.
  •  You refuse to see other men out of loyalty, whereas he does not mind.
  • You stay awake for hours waiting for a message from him.
  • You run after him when he has no desire to engage and he remains open to all opportunities.
  • You spend hours scrutinizing the messages he sent you or the pictures he posted, while you could have had a good time with your friends or family.
  • You convince yourself that this is the right thing and that it is right for you, when this relationship is toxic.
  • You give him all your heart and all your love while he on his side does not make any effort.
  • Between you, "it's complicated." You are not happy and fulfilled.
  • He always arranges appointments at the last minute, and you agree.
  • He does not try to impress you.
  • He often asks you to come join him, while he does not move a finger. He seeks ease.
  • You cling to the good times you spent together. You are so blinded that you do not see that they represent only a tiny part of your relationship.
  • You ask him where you are in your relationship, and his answers are vague.

Why is not it good for you?
Such a person does not really care about you, she just hang out with you and you are for her a simple spare wheel she turns to when she has found no one else to see.

With such a person, you waste your time, your energy, and your emotions.

How to avoid finding yourself in such relationships?
Being alone is experienced by many women as a great misfortune; they feel that their life is monotonous without a man by their side. Not tolerating solitude, they prefer to engage in any relationship, as wobbly as it is. They then try with all their strength to save a sinking boat, over-investing and giving everything of themselves.

Yet it is these same women who find themselves most often rejected and unhappy, with an even greater sense of being left behind.

Regain your sense of dignity
Rather than being desperate, let's regain some respect for ourselves, a sense of personal worth. Because when we respect each other, we no longer accept losing our time and investing in lost causes. We no longer accept being treated like old socks and taking advantage of us.

Let us have a high regard for ourselves. Do not let us abuse.

Loneliness is far from being a blemish
You deserve better than being an option for someone, you deserve someone who will be as invested as you, who will give back as much as you give him, who will keep his promises and will not disappoint you.

Do not be afraid to be alone because loneliness sometimes has its advantages. Being alone, for example, allows you to fully focus on achieving your goals as well as things that make you happy.

Finally, by leaving a semi-relationship with someone who does not match you, you increase your chances of meeting the person who is really made for you.
Why It's Better To Stay Single Than To Stay In A "Shit" Relationship