These are women who can go through a lot of failures in life, a heartbreak, broken friendships, or family problems. They stay up and strong despite the pain and pain they feel. Why ? Let's discover together!
Whenever the world hurts a woman like this, she pretends to smile and continues as if nothing had happened. As if she was perfectly fine. As if his heart was unbreakable. But the reality is very different!
She is a woman who looks strong
But this is not the case deep down. She feels like she is lying when she tries to show everyone that she is strong for fear of being underestimated. After all, everyone thinks she's strong, because most see only one aspect of her personality. During the day, people think she has no problem, when she has enough energy to pretend to be fine. But they do not see her at night, when she is alone in her room, and she has no strength to go beyond her problems.
She's a woman who never lets anyone see her vulnerability
During moments of strong emotions, she holds her tears until she has a chance to run to the bathroom to let them run. When she does not feel well, she will invent an excuse to slip away, so no one will realize what she's going through or what she's going through. And when she goes through a mental breakdown, she does not send SMS to her friends or publish Facebook status. She suffers in silence without anyone knowing, she wants to heal her wounds by herself. She does not feel the interest of sharing her misery.
Her friends consider her a funny, strong woman, one who finds solutions to everything. So they come to her with their problems, and expect her to be good advice. She welcomes them with open arms and offers them the comfort and guidance they need without complaining about her life, even if she really wants to scream in pain, when she sees that her problems are 100 times worse than theirs. But she knows how to control her emotions. She is listening. She is understanding. She wants to be a good friend that others can really count on.
When she is with people, it is not so difficult for her to put her problems aside. She got used to it. But the moment she is out of sight of others, all her problems reappear in her mind.
She hates to stay alone for a very long time, as well as to stay awake during the night. She hates to see that her mind is stuck in negative ideas, because it's a dangerous terrain.
It is a field where she is convinced that she misses life, where she sees herself fail, where she sees herself weak and where she will not realize her dreams. Even if she looks strong, even if she is really strong, her fears will not leave her alone. They are with her every night, even in her dreams. And they make her feel small and weak.
She hates the fact that everyone considers her only as a beautiful independent woman, whereas she sees herself as just human, with her strengths, her weaknesses, her sensitivity, her qualities and her faults.
A woman who must know her value and strength
This woman does not realize that she is as hard as iron, because she perseveres despite everything. She is strong because she still believes in hope, and because she is able to smile despite pain and sorrow. She is strong because she is still up and alive, even though she is a witness to the cruelty of this world and its miseries.
This type of women is very rare nowadays, since most people no longer have the patience or the tools necessary to confront the problems of life, so as soon as they encounter problems and difficulties, they 'completely collapse. However, this type of women knows how to find their way among all these obstacles, to find fulfillment and to find life again.
