The mental strength can not always be at the rendezvous, sometimes it abandons us leaving us face our fears and our anxieties, our disappointments and our despair. So we feel exhausted and tired. The truth sets in and reveals our vulnerability, paving the way for our most feared and hidden emotions.
Force is often required of us, by society, by our surroundings but often by ourselves ....
To be strong is to remain optimistic
It is to believe in the magic of love despite the tears generated by disappointment and sorrow, to look at his face ravaged by the pain in the mirror and to say that we must continue to hope, to know how to forgive the no one who hurt us.
To be strong is to help others
It is being in empathy, being there for someone when others have abandoned him, being always present for others and forgetting his own needs is to continue to trust despite betrayals lived.
To be strong is to blame
It is accepting to suffer the wickedness of the other and to realize that it is the reflection of his personality, it is to continue to recover after having fallen several times, it is to continue to to believe in yourself despite the doubt and negativity of others.
But the fatigue is there ...
The tiredness of being disappointed, of being hurt, of seeing nothing come true, of flogging one's anguish and doubts, of always wanting to make others happy and forget one's own happiness.
The fatigue of pleasing and being always on the lookout for the recognition of others, who do not even care, to be strong for their children, their parents, their friends and realize that no one's day will be there when needed.
The fatigue of hiding his fears, his anxieties and showing a reality made up by a smile and a radiant face.
The tiredness of seeing the loved one, leaving us, and having the urge to tell him "I will miss you".
Yet the truth is to love this life
The truth of knowing and recognizing this life. It is to prove to oneself one's own sincerity and sensitivity. It is feeling capable of suffering the emotional pain and deep love that overwhelms and engulfs but at the same time realize that it is a happiness that is not within the reach of all. The happiness to taste the joys of passion, the delectation of the senses and even the annihilation, but also the feeling of passion, love and life. It is saying, it was worth the blow to live all these emotions because the heart is there, it beats and it vibrates.
The truth is that nothing will change, neither the character nor the personality even if the fatigue is there and that it is necessary.
That's what makes the difference and the rarity of a strong person. She gives the example to all those who despair and let the disturbances of life shake and change them. For nothing in the world, the pain will not destroy it, it will make a lesson in life to move with great pride, the smile on the lips giving the impression to say, I'm here and I love my life, after all.
