You are in a relationship and you feel that your sweetheart is no longer the same. She only talks when you ask her a question or ask for something and speak only rarely. His attitude intrigues you? Read on to understand what is happening.
Obviously, one thing is worse than a woman who talks too much: it's a woman who does not speak to you at all. Silence is commonly one of the weapons of the female arsenal, but also a way to send a message. So when you feel that a woman is moving away from you, creating more distance, or suddenly becoming silent, that's not a good sign. Here is why you should worry.
Silence is a form of communication
A woman's silence usually reflects her tiredness and resignation. Especially when things are not going as she expects and she realizes that nothing is more worthwhile to invest more energy. It does not seek to generate changes or seek answers. On the other hand, silence in women may also indicate that a strategy is being prepared, not to repair or save something that they do not want to lose, but usually to reorganize or re-start a new life.
Sir, if your wife suddenly becomes silent, this is not a good sign!
A sign that something is wrong
In his book, Men Come From Mars, Women Come From Venus, John Gray says that women have their own way of communicating their feelings and needs in a relationship. According to him, when the expectations of a woman in a relationship are not realized, it is then disappointed or frustrated, she instinctively tries to approach her partner to solve the problem. However, when women distance themselves strangely, it is often the sign that something is wrong or that the problem is very important for them.
She is scared
According to Gray, women are generally comfortable communicating their feelings. However, they sometimes feel that the risks of being sincere are too great and choose silence as the best defense.
She is confused
Silence and distance can also be a woman's way of saying, "I'm confused now, I need time before I can talk." According to Dr. Herb Goldberg, Emeritus Professor of Psychology at the University of California at Los Angeles, many women are emotionally and even emotionally distant to question and recover their feelings.
She is angry
According to John Gray, women are able to overcome real obstacles when they show deep anger. The "ice law", or deep distancing, can be a sign that a woman is so angry that she can not trust herself to communicate or release her anger.
Ultimately, it is necessary to emphasize that silence can generate great distances in the couple because it is of no help to resolve the conflict. Moreover, when silence is maintained, it is very difficult to understand the position of the other, which leaves room for a series of conjunctures, hypotheses and scenarios.
So, if silence becomes the usual way to solve your problems and you can not remember the last time you were able to communicate to resolve a conflict, it's time for you to think and question yourself.
