Often men when they leave their partner wherever they are left, do not really realize the importance of the place that it had, that much later. And often it is already too late ... Nowadays, a woman will give several chances to her partner, but when it has decided that it is really time to end his relationship, no possibility of going back ...
From denial to reality
When the life of two turns vinegar or calm too flat, separate and take off each one of his side becomes almost ordinary. And when a woman leaves a man for good, it is because she has decided it, against all odds! And when the man leaves his partner, often after a phase of denial, he suddenly becomes aware of what it really represents and ends up regretting his choice! And there, it hurts, it comes to destroy everything that had been built.
In the majority of cases, for whatever reason, women give their partners a lot of chances, much more than they should sometimes while keeping in mind the hope that their partner will change, improve, will open your eyes to what is wrong or to his behavior. And this is the main reason why some women get bogged down in a relationship that they basically do not want, and that does not allow them to flourish as a woman and as a couple.
Until the day they finally decide that it's over and that there will be no more backtracking possible. More luck to give, more hope in mind.
And it is at this point when the loop is complete, that a man becomes aware of the importance and the added value that his partner represented in his life. The woman he had always been waiting for, but who is no longer. I had become unbearable? I worked too much? I did not look at her anymore? Should I stop my pranks? As many questions as a man can ask, but much too late, the day after a separation ...
Why do men always regret?
Oh yes, almost always when a woman has returned to a normal life, trying to rebuild herself, forging another vision of love away from her ex-partner, there by the "greatest chances, "here it resurfaces.
Water will have flowed under the bridges, since the separation, refreshing the memory of past good times and the diverse and varied qualities of his former partner. Would he look for the ease, the comfort, the benefits he would have already known with his sweetheart who now seems more interesting, attractive, irremediably irresistible and finally seems to be idealizing against all odds?
But where the rub is that this dear sweetheart, has taken control of his life, feels happier without his ex, is more fulfilled. The fulfillment she so badly needed and that she could not get from the one who today would be ready for anything to offer him ...
The fact that a man and a woman have built a relationship, which certainly ended, a phenomenon of belonging occurs and it reveals the primary instincts of the human being and thus contributes to wanting to go back and to safeguard this notion of belonging and it is not an impression, but a reality.
Learn to turn the page
Difficult to draw a line on common memories, regain its marks and cope with loneliness when a romantic relationship ends. A daily that changes, trying to learn to live without the other, do not succumb to despair, regret and melancholy ... A whole mental feat ...
But in most cases, the distraught man was warned ... The woman for his part can only think of this excerpt taken from a novel by Philippe Besson: "But we still leave, in new places, the faces of past are no longer the same outlines, they are not so precise ... ".
