What to say about love, except that in some cases he is a great liar, a great concealer, he forces us to give everything and goes, satiated, looking for other hearts to rob. In another aspect of course, love is the deepest and most healthy feeling in the world, everything obviously depends on the perception we have of it, the love we think we deserve and that of course that we received. Discover this poignant open letter of truth addressed to a young woman irrevocably believing in love.
Dear woman,
Yes you. Do not think I do not know you because I'm like you. I was able to wear your shoes and so feel in your place so often. I know what you're feeling.
Do not listen to those who tell you that you love too much. Do not let them tell you that you are too emotional, sticky, old-fashioned, boring, a difficult person to handle. Do not listen to them when they say to you, "You have to change. You love too much. Keep your emotions to yourself. Do not get too attached to people. Yes, I know what it does.
Do not listen to them because your love can never be big enough. Your heart is so big that you could absorb all the love of the world. Your heart is rare. It is unique.
You are not weak
I need you to realize that you are not wrong. You're not weird. It is not you who are weak, but they. They want to love like you, but they are afraid of being hurt. They do not know what pure and deep love is because no one has ever shown them a love like yours. They are not as strong as you.
You are so kind and compassionate. You give your heart, your mind and your body to the person you love. You are completely involved in your relationships.
When you love as you do, it means that you should never be judged for the way you express your love. You should never worry about knowing if your love is too strong.
Selfishness is a concept you do not know. When you are tired, worried or sad, you do not focus on your feelings and needs, but you take care of those of others. When you go through bad days or go through difficult times, you do not fear that others think you are too sensitive.
For people like us, falling in love comes naturally. We do not see this as a way of playing with someone's feelings. We know how we want to be treated, watched, touched. We believe that if we love people unconditionally, they will love us in the same way. Yet this hardly ever happens.
But what do you know? Maybe some people do not deserve to be loved this way. Some are just not worth the trouble we were fighting for them.
Respect and dignity
You never let others down when they need your advice, help or support. You treat them with respect and dignity, even if they do not deserve your kindness. You make a lot of effort to make others happy, even if you know they will not give you anything in return.
Often, you think the whole world is against you. You have the impression that nothing you do is ever enough. Whatever you say or do, people are never satisfied with you. But do not blame yourself when others do not understand you. Do not let their cruel behavior determine your worth and your happiness.
Believe me, you are special. Let others think and say what they want from you because you represent more than that.
Power and courage
Do not let others make you doubt you. Do not let them break your trust and your hopes. You are strong, intelligent and capable. There is a lot of strength and courage in you, you just have to find them.
I need you to know that you deserve to be surrounded by people who will treat you with love, kindness and compassion, as you treat others. Never doubt what you deserve.
Accept yourself as you are. Do not change your attitude towards people. Do not let your love scare you. Do not hide your love because it's a blessing, not a curse. However, learn to pay attention to who you give it to and protect yourself.
Give it to the man who will appreciate you and who will be grateful to have such an extraordinary person in his life - YOU.
