We meet several types of people during our lives hence the need to know exactly who we are dealing with. The characters, the intentions and the degrees of authenticity of the people are various and varied and it is very often that we are disappointed by a person in whom we had confidence and that we believed close and sincere.
It can be very painful to realize that a friend, colleague, or family member is hypocritical about how they behave with others.
Fortunately, it turns out that there are signs that hypocritical people have lifelong social interactions that should help you effectively identify and differentiate between authentic and non-genuine people.
They do everything to be loved
People who are wrong make incredible efforts to be loved by those around them, because they do not want to show their true face for fear of being rejected.
It is one of the most egregious signs that such an individual will display, since he will always try to do more than others in his interaction with people in order to make a good impression.
This will allow you to easily recognize your true friends, since they remain themselves in all circumstances and no matter who they are with.
They constantly need attention
People lacking authenticity always feel a need to be at the center of attention. But in addition to doing everything in order to be appreciated by others, they absolutely want to look essential in all circumstances.
If you know someone who is doing their best to eclipse others and direct all the attention to him, this should serve as a warning of his falsity.
They are vain
Since fake friends really crave attention, they always want to put themselves forward by exaggerating a lot of things and highlighting qualities that are not theirs.
We all have moments where we want to show our joy, to party, but if you see that the person in question is exhibiting whatever the context, it probably means that she plays a role and she is not herself.
It is quite possible that you have a friend who is gifted in more than one field, but what will make the difference in his authenticity is the fact that he puts himself forward or not. When you're good in one thing, you're not constantly trying to make it a spectacle.
They are too talkative
Gossiping is something that is quite common in everyday life, and it happens sometimes that we give in during a discussion. The difference is that the fake people talk a lot about people, they spend their time doing it.
These people have such behavior because they want to distract you by pushing you to focus on others rather than on them, because they do not want to know who they really are.
If you know someone who behaves this way, make him understand that he should stop and watch his reaction.
They often criticize
A fake friend is someone who spends his time criticizing others because he has trouble talking about them in glowing terms. This is explained by the fact that someone so hypocritical will always try to look good, suddenly in his eyes, a compliment for others represents one less for him.
