We are all looking for our soul mate, even the most skeptical of us, the most independent, the most lonely and the jaded of love. We all have the fantasy of meeting this famous half, the one with whom things seem to flow naturally, the person who will complete us to prove to us that finally, with two, it is much better. It's the love of your life, the unpredictable but so obvious, the perfect representation of contrasting parity.
This person will eventually enter your life in the most unexpected way, when you have abandoned all hope, you will not look, and you leave the fate, somewhat sly but oh so insightful, to deal with cross your way.
You will meet her ... when you are ready!
The right person will enter your life at the right time. When you will be accomplished, balanced, in osmosis with yourself and ready to share with the other. When you have regained all your confidence, you will have found yourself, intrinsically known, discovered and loved. When you are self-sufficient, you will have no control problem, and when you become aware that it is first of all for you to create your own happiness.
The right person will come into your life because you will feel so good in your life that it will seem simple and conventional. The universe knows that the human being, in all its complexity, will never be satisfied with the ordinary. So, to continue to make sense of your existence and to remind you that the journey of your destiny is nothing more than a course with mischievous resonance, you will meet this person to teach you, once again, that nothing ever is not played in advance.
The right person will enter your life when you are finally at peace with yourself, take care of yourself, learn to appreciate yourself, and appreciate others. When nothing or anyone can shake this balance that you have put so much time to build.
The right person will come into your life when you have forgiven yourself but also to others past mistakes. When you have purified your heart and your soul of all the regrets, remorse, bitterness and resentment that will have gnawed at you. It will come when you have healed and you will be rid of all the weight you have been carrying for many years.
The right person will come into your life when you are ready, at the right time, and when you deserve it. It's all the magic of the universe, trust him!
What is the right moment?
Everything is a question of "timing". Now, time is a parameter that we are (at least for the moment) impossible to control. Yet, eager, eager and impatient, we spend our lives fighting hard to fight time.
Nevertheless, in most cases it would be much wiser to stand still, to do nothing and to allow time to see all the things we aspire to achieve. In fact, trying to fight against time is like trying to cope with the headwinds, it's exhausting, taking and you'll end up by letting yourself go.
It is better to understand that it would be more to your advantage to turn your back to the wind and let it push you in the right direction.
In her book The Karma Queens Guide to Relashionships, Dr. Carmen Harra highlights some basic rules of universal timekeeping:
All is only flow
Everything changes, even what seems to us immutable. In Buddhism, suffering is thought to come mainly from our attachments to how things were, are, and could be. Nevertheless, when we realize that change is an integral part of life, we end up letting go and accept our lives and relationships as they come to us.
Choose the right moment
Before deciding to start a conversation with a person, consider the cycle and moods of people around you. Are you ready to manage yourself and calm down before continuing to talk? Can you control your fears and anxieties in order to wait for the other to be receptive to your words?
Impatience calls for the exploration of fear
If you are impatient, the best thing to do is to focus on yourself to explore your fear. In fact, it is no more and no less than to find out if there are external pressures that push you to act in this way. By understanding your fear better, it will be easier for you to get rid of it.
