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Here Is What You Will Feel When You Finally Meet The True Love Of Your Life

Here Is What You Will Feel When You Finally Meet The True Love Of Your Life

Finding love, the true one, is a real quest for the majority of us. Between passions that upset us and relationships that push us to question everything, love causes a whirlwind of feelings sometimes difficult to control. So how to recognize it?

According to the psychoanalyst Patrick Lambouley, "love is for us as an unknown person". This feeling is often inexplicable but seems to fill some gaps that have characterized us since childhood. These are usually flaws that "the other" also shares, bringing us the help and support needed to better heal as a couple and support each other through the harsh trials of life. Thus, love would not be a binary theory based on the idea of ​​two halves that complement one another symmetrically, but rather a feeling of variable geometry that changes and adapts to the needs of each one within the couple. .

The fear of losing each other
Freud already announced it in his work Malaise dans la civilization: to love is simply to be afraid. To feel this emotion is to live a true Greek epic where Eros, god of love and creative power, opposes the emblematic figure of death: Thanatos. According to the father of psychoanalysis, the titanic struggle of these two entities symbolizes our daily inner conflict to give love its best chance of success. As a result, our feelings as strong as they are, are in perpetual struggle against the fear of seeing our deep "self" lose strength and independence. 

Thus, to lighten the hold of the other on our heart, it sometimes happens that we succumb to the paradox of self-sabotage in love: "I love you too much, so I leave you". Indeed, this singular antinomy is sometimes lodged in our hearts, without our being able to understand its meaning. The main question is: when and how to overcome it?

How to recognize true love?
True love is often linked to a sense of self-legitimation in the world. It is the feeling of having finally found one's place, of being all-powerful, and of sharing one's life with a person so extraordinary that one can not imagine one's absence. This form of love is therefore perceived as the ultimate achievement; the discovery of a treasure so precious that it will make you forget any fear related to commitment.

In the Buddhist world, true love is closely linked to a feeling of serenity and well-being. It is distinguished by its quiet strength that soothes your deepest fears and simplifies your life in an almost imperceptible way. He does not need your help to make his way to your heart because the purity of his essence succeeds in silencing all your anxieties. If you still have trouble recognizing it, here are some signs that do not deceive:

You will not have to pretend anymore
To be vulnerable in a couple is never easy. Indeed, this feeling is associated with the fear of seeing our weaknesses turn against us, usually in a situation of conflict. However, being vulnerable is far from being a love mess, quite the opposite. In reality, being naked emotionally is a proof of love and trust towards the other person and generally, this feeling will be manifested only in the presence of the right person.

Benevolent and open-minded, she will never let herself be judged and will make you realize that your vulnerable side is also your strength. She will value your presence in her life and grant you the status of the chosen one of her heart.

Your intuition will not deceive you
The presence of an honest and sincere love in your life will be revealed by an impression of peace and quietness disconcerting. Without being able to explain it, you will be confronted with the intrinsic feeling of having found the rare pearl because his daily actions will only prove the extent of his love towards you. His silences will be reassuring, even soothing. A true balm for your heart that will finally retract its defenses and let go to beat fully for the one who has managed to pierce your shell.

It will pop up in your life at an unexpected moment
There are many things that can be controlled in life, but love is not part of it. This feeling as old as the world has always imposed itself by its strength and its intensity and when it announces itself honest and sincere, it tends to arise at the most unexpected moments. 

Indeed, the right person will enter your life at a key moment without you noticing it. With hindsight, you will realize that his meeting occurred at a propitious time and that thanks to his presence, your life has taken a turn perfectly adapted to your needs.
Feel When You Finally Meet The True Love