Sometimes you find yourself stuck in a relationship that is hard to pin down the ins and outs. The kind of relationship where you see that you have good times but that they are immediately ruined by behaviors that can be hurtful on the part of your partner. It is in these moments that one should not just be content to listen to one's heart but also appeal to reason and common sense and have the courage to question the relationship by observing with an objective eye the actions of your spouse.
We will therefore make sure that you have an overview of these behaviors and signs that tell you that a partner is not the one with whom you should consider the future.
1. He does not understand your priorities
He does not understand and respect the fact that you have to follow your ambitions. He wants you to be with him all the time, but do not realize that you have other priorities in life. He does not push you to seek your dreams or complains every time you do something important for your well-being because they feel "abandoned".
2. He judges you
Maybe he does not like what you like, or has a different approach to life than you, but it's not a valid reason for him to judge you or your life. It is good to give some advice, but it is not at all correct to impose his vision of things or to judge the passions and choices of others.
3. He makes you feel good, but he disappoints you all the time
He makes you feel like a princess, but sometimes he does too much. He can show so much attention that it becomes stuffy. He sends you, for example, sweet messages, but disappoints you where he really has to take you into consideration as a person worthy of his love.
4. You can not laugh at his jokes
Men always try to make women laugh. It's their way of conquering them, making them fall in love. But if you do not laugh at his jokes, maybe he's not funny ... or he just does not suit you.
5. You do not really want to answer his messages
It's a universally recognized truth that if you really love someone, you'll always want to send messages to them as quickly as possible. If this is not the case for you, or if you think that sending messages back to you as a chore, it may be that this relationship may not be worth it.
6. You do not want to talk to him about what is important to you
It might be a little thought that you had on returning from work as well as a great secret that you kept for yourself for a long time. But if your intuition tells you not to tell him, it may not be the right one.
7. Everything seems hard with him
Good relationships are those where you do not force yourself. So, if you feel that things between you and you are demanding a lot of effort, then you have proof that you are not made to be together. Love comes alone, it's not something you can force.