Have you ever wondered why you are attracting bad people? You often tell yourself that you're out of luck and that you will never succeed in finding love ... At the bottom of you, you know that if you're not happy with your partner, it's probably because from you. It was your choice, it was you who invited him into your life.
The attraction a person feels towards you depends mainly on the energy you release and the image you have of yourself.
Learn from your mistakes
When you are unhappy in a relationship, you have to react. Do not blame your partner and do not consider it a failure but rather a mistake. Do you say that if you continue to attract the same kind of people, it is because the problem is yours. Ask yourself this question: "Why are you in touch with this person? ". Is it because you fear loneliness? Or because your partner gives you some comfort (financial or otherwise)? It's the answer that will clear things up. If you realize that you are with this person to avoid facing a problem (which emanates from you), it is that this relationship should never have been born and should not last. Put an end to it and concentrate on yourself.
You accept what you think you deserve
It's simple! When you agree to be unhappy as a couple, you think you deserve it. This is because you do not love yourself enough, that you have probably lost your respect for yourself. It's high time to learn how to re-appreciate yourself.
If you do not respect yourself, no one will respect you. If you do not love yourself, no one will love you. We can not receive when we can not give. Love and respect yourself, and have a high esteem for yourself, then you will be ready to receive them from others and to give them fully. Practice self-love, and you will be loved as you wish.
To get there, you do not have to compare yourself to others. Always remember that you are a unique, inspiring, talented person ... Remember also that it is impossible to love yourself without accepting yourself. Accept yourself as you are, unconditionally with indulgence and respect. Do not fight to become what you are not. Be free to be yourself and assume!
Find out who you are
Discover your flaws, your imperfections, but especially your qualities. Find your deepest desires and your most secret dreams. Let your weaknesses be part of who you are. And give meaning to your life through work, leisure, family, friends ...
Know that in this world, there will always be a person who will really love you, just as much as you love you. Do not hurry, take the time to discover and love yourself before loving someone else. You will experience a healthy love story that will bring out the best in you.
